Several months ago, we received a flyer from Discovery Bound announcing a major event for teens they were organizing for Memorial Weekend in New York City. It was a program designed to get students interested in Christian Science together for a weekend of fellowship, and participate in workshops led by successful performers, artists, and musicians who would talk about how spirituality and the Arts work together.
The weekend was financially underwritten by a generous foundation, so was very affordable for anyone wanting to attend.
When we mentioned the idea to our 2 teenagers, they had little interest in going. At first, we dropped the idea, figuring, oh well, it’s no big deal. But we also believed they were passing up on an activity they would thoroughly enjoy and benefit from.
Living in the Tri-Cities can feel remote at times. We are a small community.
It’s tough to know as a parent sometimes, how far to promote a new idea to your children. Decisions need to be made out of genuine desire and not forced through human will.
So, we listed all the benefits the trip had to offer and my wife and I repeated them to the kids. We asked them to seriously consider going, but made it clear that it was their choice.
After a few days of thought, the kids decided to “give it a try.”
Kathy and I dropped them off at the International Hostel in NYC last Friday night with a hundred or so other teens that were also attending.
At this point, the kids expected to have a good time, and had no problem letting mom and dad take off and leave them there. That was a good sign!
Kathy and I spent the next two days in the City, which I will blog more about after this, and picked the kids up Monday morning. And they were as happy and delighted as could be. The weekend had been a grand success. New friends had been made, the program was fabulous, and their faith had been strengthened.
One lesson I learned from this, is to not let resistance to a new idea prevent one from trying something new. Mortal mind works overtime to stop progress.
Evan,
So glad to hear the great feedback from the program! We had a blast putting it on and it was such a treat to meet the many teens from all over the country.
If you want to know more about local DB programs in your area, contact Jen Dale, our NW Regional Coordinator:
[email protected]
I’m on a year-long road trip for DB promoting it in the Central US. I’m keeping a blog on it at:
http://dbrt.blogspot.com
Looking forward to hearing about what you got up to over the weekend while in NYC!
Ciao!
Hey Cameron, nice to hear from you! You are welcome, and keep up the good work!
What a great experience for both the kids and you, Evan and Kathy!! Building community and bridges of cross cultural understanding is so important and how better to do so, than with a group of Christian Scientists. Plus the kids get exposed to new places, a new culture, new people, and grow a bit by leaving their comfort zone.
I think big kudos go to you as parents to trust in God, the kids’ real parent, to take care of them in NYC. We read so much these days about Helicopter Parents, those folks who supervise their kids 23 and none tenths hours of the day!! How refreshing to read about parents who trust their kids to the one Divine Parent, our Father- Mother God!!
Mary