“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
~ Oscar Wilde
Not a selfish, think-only-about-what-you-want, could-care-less-about-another self. But your immortal self, replete with love, openness, honesty, care, generosity, confidence, integrity, and truth.
Be the glorious, unique and special reflection of God you were divinely designed to be, not a compromised version of what mortal mind would lower you into being.