Fall in love with the real you

September 18, 2017 | 24 comments

Some people don’t like themselves. They find many faults to criticize, shortcomings to dwell on and reasons to feel down about who they are and what they project toward others. But this should not be! Each of us have an incredibly awesome individuality to reflect and enjoy.

This individuality is not in a physical body. It has nothing to do with your weight, height, angular outline of your nose, posture or condition of your skin. It’s all about expressing God’s presence.

When you express love, you are living true to your individuality. When you are honest, sincere, forgiving, kind, generous, forthcoming with help, patient and happy, you are living true to your real self. And it’s a beautiful self!

People love to be loved. People of integrity appreciate people who are honest and ethical. The world needs more people who are kind and generous. When you focus on the substance of your real self, you will find much to fall in love with and to be grateful for.

Anything negative is not your real self. Any type of condemnation of self or others is the anti-thesis of you. Any type of harsh judgment, belittlement, disparagement, snobbery, self-righteousness, pride, self-indulgent ego, or uppity-ness is not you. Feeling sorry for yourself, self-pity, or woe-is-me attitude is not you. It’s the opposite of you.

The real you is the spiritual you, the God-made you, that abounds with unconditional love and unqualified appreciation for all the good in yourself and in others around you.

The real you is absolutely beautiful! It’s a delight to behold and bear witness to.

The real you is a joy to be around. It is excellent company and desirable companionship.

The real you is healthy, well and strong, abounding in good works, and not wasting a moment commiserating in error.

The real you is a perfect you, exactly what God made the moment He conceived you.

Rejoice in the real you, and be quick to disassociate with anything less. Fall in love with the “you” of God’s creating and see how wonderful you’ve been all along.

24 thoughts on “Fall in love with the real you”

  1. I just LOVE this blog! It is so true and on-target and HELPFUL!

    Thank you for each and every statement made about the ‘real’ me!

    Well done Evan!

    With love and gratitude,

    MarySue Harris

  2. Awesome and wonderful, dear Evan – thank you so much for today`s inspired and inspiring SpiritView.

    You are showing us really a spiritual view of ones own self created lovingly by our Father-Mother God – am very grateful to be reminded of this great fact! 🙂

    Oh yes, and you can find relevant spiritual thoughts in this weeks lesson sermon “reality”.

  3. A secret life
    have I
    Unseen, unknown
    now coming
    into view

    Eternal youth
    in the high noon
    of God’s
    eternal love

    Elevating
    strengthening
    Expanding
    Supplying
    Inspiring

    These are
    the words
    I use
    to try
    to describe
    the ineffable

    The subtle, powerful
    Presence
    Being revealing
    itself in time
    Reflecting the
    only reality
    that is…

    Vibrant Truth
    animating a
    Life immortal
    In a place
    called Now
    in a temple
    called Love
    in our home
    called Kingdom

    A secret life
    have we
    Unseen, unknown
    now coming
    into view

    1. Good comment/understanding by Maximo. Thank you.

      This reminds me that our lives are daily being transformed by Christ living within each one of us in Spirit. It is like the Apostle Paul said in the Bible at Galatians 2:20 (kjv):

      “I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. “

  4. Right on! Learning to look at ourselves as God sees us is a very important step to loving others because it is exactly that love that we can express to others of God’s loving them. If we are not whole, how can we express wholeness to others which is God’s healing love to all mankind. Thank you Evan for this most insightfully inspired post.

  5. Wonderful! True beauty to behold, alway and at all times. The Truth is so gracious to the universe of mankind, and so are you. Thank you, Evan.

  6. Thanks, Evan, for this beautiful reminder—we can then know how to see others as we see ourselves correctly—and treat others as we want to be treated. Lots of love to all!

  7. God given identity! What a freeing way to view ourselves and all mankind. Each one God conceived and designed. Identity has nothing to do with skin color, gender, financial status, education, location, age. Identity is our individual expression of our Creator. Our own divine design, individually expressed as individual man (used generically). To know ourselves in this way frees us from genetics,suspicion of others unlike us, envy, and all limitations of thinking of ourselves as material. I prayed with this idea much of yesterday and into the night, and was amazed to see your blog this morning. Continuing my prayer about true identity with your helpful thoughts, thanks, Evan!

  8. Thank you, Evan!! Such a joyous, positive, can do blog!! My project the past few months is to watch what thoughts come and then align them, when necessary, to God’s thoughts. This blog has even widened my willingness even further to let go of counterfeit thoughts and “cling steadfastly to God and His idea.” Thanks to commenters also!!!

  9. I claim to love God, but do I love God enough to see perfection in all his/her creation, i.e., you, me, and everyone. Yes, everything and everyone I come in contact with expresses God. Thanks to all!

  10. Evan… this is a great bit of
    Truth and wisdom which
    From your loving heart
    has revealed so clearly
    To all of us the secret
    of Peace Profound

    Thank you for your
    gracious efforts
    They inspire …….

  11. Thank you. I should start each day reading this. How helpful this is to see our spiritual selves and destroy the mortal lies about us.

  12. This is powerful on so many levels. How many times does the thought slip through my consciousness that “I am sick” or “I have pain”. I’ve been reflecting on the idea of the 7 carnal sins, and I see today that every time I entertain the idea that I am gluttonous, slothful, or am not honest (especially to myself); whenever I reflect on a day and say that the good that I would do, I do not and the evil that I would not; it is that which I do…that it is all a lie, and no part of me. The armor of God has a teflon sheen. Not only is it the most powerful defence against evil’s greatest attacks, but it also doesn’t let slung mud stick.

  13. To fall in love with the real me!!
    I really laughed when I saw that title, because that hadn’t been an attitude of mine. It’s not long ago that I started looking for the real me and trusting it.
    Thank you, Evan! I now understand that it’s not only about the “true me”, but also that of others.

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