December 27, 2012 | 5 comments
It feels so much better to forgive, let go of the resentment, and love more… You will not be punished for your anger; you will be punished by your anger. ~ Buddha Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the
May 30, 2012 | 2 comments
Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. ~ Paul Boese So often people mistakenly believe forgiveness is about the other person. But it rarely is. It’s about us. It’s so important to forgive
April 23, 2012 | 8 comments
At a recent tennis tournament, I lost a match I had my heart set on winning. It was the oddest experience for me, because typically I take match losses very well. But not this one! I internally fussed and fumed about what
November 4, 2011 | 6 comments
I pulled my CRV up to the curb of a shopping mall to stop a moment and put some letters in a postal box. In front of me was a woman sitting outside a café at a little table, fiddling
September 9, 2011 | 6 comments
Sometimes people have a hard time forgiving another who did them harm because they believe that forgiving them somehow overlooks the crime and pretends like it never happened. This is not true. Forgiveness is never approval of an evil. Forgiveness does not