One of the highlights of our trip to Indian Wells was watching Roger Federer warm-up for a tournament match with only a few feet between ourselves and his practice space on court.
If you’re not aware, Federer is the Tiger Woods of tennis these days. He is an incredibly accomplished and successful tennis player.
I’m not into personality worship, for the absorption of thought into material individuality is a dangerous place to go. But I’ve also learned that the talents and abilities of my fellowman are windows into the infinite individuality of God that we all collectively reflect.
Roger’s finesse, grace, overflowing talent, poise on the court, and intelligent use of a racket are an inspiration to millions.
I admire his calm under pressure. He never, or rarely, appears flustered, upset or bothered by mistakes, by opponent’s successes, or by the score if he is behind. He stays focused on his game, on doing his very best with every point. And he succeeds in his intent.
It’s a lesson for life. Don’t hold onto your errors and mistakes. Let them go and focus on doing the best you can in the moment you’re in. It works for Roger. It can work for us too.
At Indian Wells, there are several practice courts in outlying areas surrounding the main stadium. Fans flock to these courts to watch their favorite stars warm-up. Roger was a main attraction. Hundreds of kids and their parents, would line the four sides of the court to watch.
The children and adults behind Roger in the above picture waited patiently for an hour, while Roger worked on court, in hopes of getting his autograph when he exited the gate.
Roger lived up to their expectations, signing dozens of balls to the delight of many. Many balls went unsigned, for the crush of the crowd was overwhelming, but Roger’s love for his fans was evident, and the care he showed warmed the hearts of many.
Thanks! This was just right.
I was having trouble forgiving myself for a couple of mistakes in behavior I had made today that didn’t feel very comfortable.
This was the message I needed…..
Thanks for the great thought. I have had a challenge all my life forgiving myself. You have made it so easy, moment by moment.
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I totally agree with what is said here about Roger. I’ve watched him many times, on TV, playing outstanding tennis. In his comments after a game, won or lost, he always says good things about the oponent, never putting anyone down. It’s a real joy to watch him and I have to say, I learn a lot about his calm and peaceful moments and what he brings to each game. Well worth remembering when things seem to get out of control.
Christine from Australia